Mentor, Coach and Educator

For years, I did it and didn’t even realise it. It was my friends (whom I had helped) who suggested that I offer coaching professionally so here I am.

Having experienced the childhood sexual abuse, I know how hard it can be sometimes to find that trust and safety again. The healing journey has been hard for me mainly because I felt alone and I had to figure it out by myself. This is my main reason for offering this service. I want you to know that you are not alone. 

I have worked with childhood sexual abuse for decades and I believe that I can help you take charge of your healing journey. I can help you learn about the myriad of healing techniques that are out there and together, we can create a system of healing and a team of professionals that can help you on your journey.

You can read my story by clicking here.


Kind Words

  • Myriam Bejjani. Child and Family Psychologist

    Myriam Bejjani. Child and Family Psychologist

    “Ruby Usman is an inspiring individual with a hunger to live life to the fullest. Her intelligence, “realness” and wisdom are born of real life experiences. Like an alchemist, she has turned life’s garbage into gold. This gold she offers to others with enthusiasm and integrity!”
  • Joe Williams. Speaker, Mentor and Coach

    Joe Williams. Speaker, Mentor and Coach

    “She’s an amazing coach; she’s knowledgeable, skilful, and she has also got a heart; She’s got the soul. I was moved by how much she cares. When you put those two things together, that’s a rare combination.”
  • Ellie Bassick-Trovato. Partner at Spark Your Spirit

    Ellie Bassick-Trovato. Partner at Spark Your Spirit

    “Ruby is one of my favourite speakers. She moves me every time she gets up there with the story of what she’s made of her life and the impact that she is already making on the world. I have felt it, and I highly recommend that you get in touch with her so that you can feel it too.”
  • Narada Ellis. Senior Consultant

    Narada Ellis. Senior Consultant

    “Ruby has a deep compassion and empathy for people that guides all she does. She has a wide knowledge and experience with many methods of reflection, discovery and self-improvement. I am endlessly grateful that Ruby has helped me to become a far more self-aware person, and prompted me to dig deeper and to challenge my assumptions on countless occasions.”
  • Atish Malla. Consultant

    Atish Malla. Consultant

    “Ruby has been a wonderful mentor for the past four years and has helped me realise my potential. She has helped me reflect on what I feel is important in my life and how I ought to achieve these. Her guidance and constant feedback has ensured that I stay focused on my beliefs and move forward aiming for a positive future. Thank you Ruby.”

My Own Journey

This is where I started…

Somehow I wanted to record this moment so I took selfies without even thinking. Now I am so glad that I did.

I was in a strange country; didn’t have a place to live; didn’t have friends and I didn’t think that life was worth living.

Finding myself wasn’t easy at times but I was determined so I tried everything that came my way. 

You can read my story by clicking here.

This is after my major healing…

I did a photoshoot to celebrate and capture my essence. I wanted to remember who I was and where I came from and what healing did to my life.

I had completely transformed my life and I wanted to celebrate that by capturing this moment. Every time I look at these photos, I know that I CAN do it, no matter how difficult the path.

You can do it too. You can find yourself again and not let the trauma drive your life.

I can help you.


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Additional Information

Learn more about me, and get your own sense of whether I am the right person for you.

In this video, I share my experiences and my intentions by creating this website.

Happy Watching 🙂