As a #survivor, I have relied on my #partners to create the sense of #safety for me but recently, I had an opportunity to create my own #sexualsafety. The result was #ecstatic… #rubiversity #csa #sex
healing from abuse
Restoring #sexual #safety is crucial for #healing #sexualscars and it is best managed by having a #Consent and #Boundaries Conversation #csa #rubiversity
Restoring #emotionalsafety for #survivors requires becoming aware of how emotions become intense for you… #csa #rubiversity #sexualabuse #childabuse
Survivors of Childhood abuse live with a sense of “un-safety” that is at the core of all the symptoms of Trauma. If we understand how this sense of “not feeling safe” gets triggered, we can start the journey of healing and re-balancing ourselves.
Sometimes healing doesn’t have to involve difficult and draining methods. Sometimes, we can be held in the gentle power of healing and allow our negative emotions to dissolve away…
“It’s not about the horse” and when we learn that, we also learn and horses can help us work with our fears and allow us to go to the other side with love, gentleness and support.
Sometimes when we are feeling the most hopeless, the universe sends us these guides, angels and friends who restore our faith in this life and who help us be hopeful again. My life would have never been the same without these angels…
Many adults who have experienced childhood sexual abuse, experience sexual dysfunction in their romantic relationships. Fortunately, there is a way out… We don’t have to continue this cycle of suffering
Sexual abuse complicates our sexuality. We become ashamed, conflicted and confused. and It greatly impacts not only us but our partners. Our strategy – we start abusing ourselves to make our partners happy…
He never received those letters but i wrote many of them; was able to re-integrate my childhood abuse and let go.